The Addicted Mind Podcast

TAM+ EP 99 Escaping The Happiness Trap: Intrinsic vs. Extrinsic Goals

Jan 8, 2026
Explore the intriguing distinction between extrinsic and intrinsic goals, revealing how the former offers only fleeting happiness. Delve into the concept of the hedonic treadmill and discover why achieving status and wealth may leave you wanting. Learn how intrinsic goals, such as personal growth and meaningful relationships, provide deeper fulfillment. Duane and Eric share practical tips to cultivate intrinsic happiness through gratitude, mindfulness, and connection. Unlock the secrets to stepping off the hedonic treadmill and embracing lasting joy.
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Extrinsic Rewards Are Fleeting

  • Extrinsic goals (money, status, possessions) produce short-lived boosts of happiness that fade back to baseline.
  • Duane Osterlund warns this cycle traps people in constant chasing without lasting fulfillment.
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Intrinsic Goals Give Lasting Fulfillment

  • Intrinsic goals like personal growth and relationships provide sustained, deeper happiness.
  • Duane Osterlund explains these goals align with core values and deliver long-term life satisfaction.
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Hedonic Treadmill Explains Adaptation

  • The hedonic treadmill (hedonic adaptation) means people return to a stable happiness level after positive or negative events.
  • Duane Osterlund links hedonic adaption to why extrinsic gains don't raise long-term happiness.
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