#51: Taking the Blame Versus Taking Ownership - Part 2

This week on the RL Radio podcast - part two of the two-part series on what it looks like when he takes the blame versus what it looks like for him to take ownership. In this episode, we focus on the latter, taking ownership. I love this episode and I hope you love it, too!

For a real life example - we discuss our lovely turquoise, tweed couch and how Jason took the blame initially via victim AND martyr. (Ladies - CRAZY making!!!)

Here are three principles he can use to pivot from blame to ownership:

1. Ownership happens when there is something bigger than me to fall back on. This begs the question: What is my worth in?
2. Ownership happens when my eyes are on you, not on me. As in: feeling it with her and for her; no excuses made, focus completely on her.
3. Ownership happens when the wrong stands alone. As in: expose it, don’t hide it; fully own it.

We then talk about what SHE experiences when he owns it + what it does for him when he owns it.

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