That Relationship Show The Men's Episode
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Dec 15, 2019 In this engaging discussion, Jim Thomas, a Master EFT therapist and director of the Colorado Center for EFT, explores the intricate dynamics of masculinity in relationships. He uncovers the pressures men face from societal norms and the impact of toxic masculinity on emotional expression. Jim emphasizes the importance of vulnerability and the need for men to redefine their identity beyond traditional views. With personal anecdotes and reflections, the conversation advocates for open communication and deeper connections in men's relationships.
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Gender Is Shaped By Context
- Cultural norms, history, economics and family all shape how gendered behavior is taught and practiced.
- Deb and Naomi emphasize gender is not binary and social context determines allowed expressions.
Risk, Maturity, And Economic Pressure
- Young men face higher physical risks because their brains mature later and risk-taking persists into the twenties.
- Economic pressures and U.S. social supports intensify expectations for men to provide and protect.
Coaches Teach Toughness Early
- Hosts and guests share stories of abusive sports coaches shaping male behavior in youth.
- Jim and others recall violent or yelling coaches that normalized toughness and silence.
