Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 541 - Make Agreements with Yourself, Not With Your Partner
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Aug 5, 2025 Explore the power of making personal agreements rather than relying solely on partner commitments. Discover how self-reflection and intentionality can foster personal growth and healthier relationships. Learn about the benefits of documenting agreements in non-monogamous setups and the importance of flexibility. Delve into establishing personal values and boundaries that enhance well-being, while crafting self-agreements to navigate conflicts. This insightful discussion emphasizes aligning actions with your ideal self for more meaningful connections.
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Focus on Who You Want To Be
- Knowing the person you want to be helps clarify what you seek in partners.
- This self-awareness reduces external pressures and attracts more aligned relationships.
Challenges with Partner Agreements
- The hosts rarely formalize partner agreements; they often rely on verbal or informal notes.
- Remembering details from agreements can be hard without written records, leading to miscommunication.
Relationship Agreements in Context
- Relationship agreements are mainly a non-monogamy subculture practice.
- They help communication but can cause stress when misused or overly rigid.
