Modern Wisdom #206 - Kezia Noble - A Woman's Guide To Attracting Women
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Aug 6, 2020 Kezia Noble, a renowned dating and attraction coach, dives into the struggles men face in today’s dating scene. She tackles the all-too-common approach anxiety and offers tips to navigate social interactions authentically. The conversation also critiques how technology and societal shifts are reshaping traditional dating norms. Noble emphasizes balancing looks with personality, and the importance of humor and charisma in forming connections. Discover how male-female dynamics evolve and what really sparks attraction in modern relationships.
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Overcoming Approach Anxiety
- Overcome approach anxiety by desensitizing yourself to fear of rejection through repeated exposure.
- Simultaneously develop strong conversation skills to build confidence and reduce anxiety.
Prepared Spontaneity
- Relying solely on spontaneous wit can be detrimental when dating, especially for those who aren't naturally witty.
- Prepare some "conversational clickbait" or go-to lines, especially in the initial stages, to avoid awkwardness and spark curiosity.
Market Yourself
- View yourself as the "product" and dating as "marketing" yourself.
- Identify your key qualities and attributes to "sell" yourself effectively.