Calm Parenting Podcast

Catch Your Child Stealing, Sneaking Screens, Drinking, Vaping, Watching Porn? #515

Sep 3, 2025
Learn how to tackle tough topics like sneaking food or screens at night with your kids. Discover strategies to communicate effectively when you find substances like alcohol or vape pens. The discussion emphasizes understanding your child's motivations behind risky behaviors. Gain insights into fostering trust and compassion during these challenging conversations, ensuring you guide them towards healthier choices without judgment.
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ADVICE

Respond Without Rage

  • Slow down and avoid an angry, accusatory reaction when you discover risky behavior.
  • Use a specific script and plan to prevent defensive shut-down and secrecy.
INSIGHT

Discipline Is Teaching

  • Discipline should aim to teach and protect, not only punish.
  • Overreacting drives kids to hide problems and seek answers from peers or social media.
ADVICE

Talk One-On-One First

  • Have one-on-one conversations to reduce shame and increase openness.
  • Reserve joint-parent interventions for life-threatening situations only.
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