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Without justice, can unbearable grief subside?

Sep 17, 2025
Sujata Berry, a documentary contributor and sister of Sharad, who perished on Air India Flight 182, joins her sister Sudha to explore their family’s harrowing journey through grief. They delve into the challenges of unresolved sorrow due to a lack of justice and share poignant memories that highlight the lasting impact of tragedy. Their conversation touches on the psychology of grief, including how it affects the brain and family dynamics. Together, they reflect on memorials and the rituals that keep their brother’s memory alive.
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First Days After The Crash

  • Sujata Berry describes the immediate chaos after the Air India Flight 182 crash and serving tea while her parents fell apart.
  • She recounts seeing debris photos and hearing rescue reports with no sign of survivors.
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Last Goodbye And No Remains

  • Sujata recalls kissing her brother Sharad goodbye at the airport and crying all the way home.
  • She explains her parents went to Ireland hoping to identify remains but returned empty-handed and broken.
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Ireland's Embrace Versus Canada's Silence

  • Sujata contrasts Canada's muted response with Ireland's warm public memorials and kindness from locals.
  • Her father was given flowers cut from a woman's garden who assumed they'd be visiting the crash memorial.
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