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Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Why You’re Obsessed with the Wrong People

Feb 13, 2025
38:03

Welcome to Dear Violetta - our monthly series airing every second week of the month! where I answer your toughest questions with the unfiltered advice you need to hear.

If you've ever questioned a friendship, obsessed over a ghoster, or felt like you fall too fast in love—then today's episode is for you.

Topics Covered:

  • Ending a toxic friendship & signs your friendship is toxic
  • Should you give a guy who ghosted you a second chance?
  • The fastest way to get someone to do what you want (in work, love, & life)
  • First date mistakes: The #1 thing ruining your chances before the relationship even starts
  • "Why are all the men I date cheaters?” (Hint: It’s deeper than you think)
  • Getting attached too fast: The difference between love & emotional attachment
  • The real reason we get swept away SO easily


🎧 Listen now for the tough love you didn’t ask for—but NEED.


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