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The Psychology of your 20s
147. The psychology of the eldest daughter
Nov 28, 2023
Explore the psychology of being the eldest daughter, including birth order theory, parentification, the mental load, friendships between firstborns and lastborns, and delayed teenage rebellion. Discover the challenges and pressures faced by eldest daughters and gain tips for healing and self-care in your 20s.
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- Eldest daughters often exhibit traits of self-reliance, overachievement, and feeling accountable for others' happiness due to birth order and gender.
- Birth order theory and gender expectations contribute to the unique challenges faced by eldest daughters, such as taking on more domestic and emotional labor.
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The Unique Experiences of Eldest Daughters
Eldest daughters face unique experiences and responsibilities due to birth order, age, and gender. They often develop specific personality traits and mental health challenges as a result. Eldest daughters are self-reliant, independent, and find it hard to trust others with tasks. They feel accountable for their family's happiness and future, and are often labeled as overachievers or gifted children. They have people-pleasing tendencies and may feel pressured to excel in their academics and careers. Elder's daughters are often highly empathetic and sensitive, taking on a caregiving and leadership role within their families. They may experience emotional and mental exhaustion, feeling that their own care is not prioritized.
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