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How Much Vetting Is Too Much Before A First Date?

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Aug 21, 2022
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ANECDOTE

Dorm Placement Surprise

  • Jordana recounts being placed in an all-female dorm she didn't expect and feeling out of place socializing in college.
  • She describes having a single room with a sink and missing out on typical freshman social life because of that placement.
ANECDOTE

Three Weeks Of Pre-Date Texting

  • An emailer describes three weeks of texting before a planned first date and the guy asking for deal breakers the night before.
  • The exchange included specific deal breakers and the man revealing he is bi and remains close friends with his ex.
INSIGHT

Vetting Kills Organic Chemistry

  • Excessive pre-date vetting limits the chance to assess chemistry in person and narrows opportunities.
  • Hosts argue many personal details can be better understood in context on a date rather than via checklist texts.
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