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Good Inside with Dr. Becky

Good Inside Parenting is Not Gentle Parenting

Jan 16, 2024
Explore the idea that effective parenting is all about sturdiness, not gentleness. Discover how a firm approach can foster resilience in children without resorting to punishment. Hear real-life situations from parents seeking guidance on balancing support and authority. Learn how to teach essential life skills through understanding, creating a nurturing yet strong environment for kids.
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  • Sturdy parenting emphasizes being grounded, intentional, and connected to help children navigate emotions without relying on consequences or punishments.
  • Instead of relying on consequences, parents should focus on helping children develop essential skills and problem-solving abilities to promote positive change and growth.

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Parenting with Sturdiness

Parenting is not about being gentle, but about being sturdy. The speaker emphasizes the importance of being grounded, intentional, and connected in parenting moments that require intensity and strength. Sturdiness in parenting means maintaining boundaries, acknowledging others' feelings and experiences, and not being overwhelmed by them. Sturdiness does not require harshness or punishment, but instead clarity, conviction, and confidence. The key is to provide a strong and stable presence for our children, helping them navigate their emotions and challenges without relying on consequences or punishments.

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