Good Inside with Dr. Becky Good Inside Parenting is Not Gentle Parenting
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Jan 16, 2024 Explore the idea that effective parenting is all about sturdiness, not gentleness. Discover how a firm approach can foster resilience in children without resorting to punishment. Hear real-life situations from parents seeking guidance on balancing support and authority. Learn how to teach essential life skills through understanding, creating a nurturing yet strong environment for kids.
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Sturdy, Not Gentle Parenting
- Good Inside parenting prioritizes sturdiness, not gentleness, to effectively guide children.
- Sturdiness involves connecting with yourself and your child simultaneously, acknowledging their feelings while maintaining boundaries.
The Sturdy Pilot Analogy
- Dr. Becky uses the analogy of a pilot in turbulence to illustrate sturdy parenting.
- A sturdy parent remains calm and in control, providing reassurance and guidance, not harshness or gentleness.
Focus on Skill-Building
- Instead of consequences, focus on teaching children the skills they lack.
- Help them understand why their behavior is not okay and brainstorm alternative actions.
