PsycHacks Episode 505: Creating a monster (how men ruin their relationships)
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Feb 17, 2025 Discover how men often contribute to their own relationship troubles by unintentionally rewarding bad behavior. Learn about the dangerous cycle of reinforcing poor dynamics that can lead to worsening conflicts. Delve into the importance of choosing compatible partners and respecting self-worth in relationships. Gain insights on the impact of parenting on adult interactions and the significance of setting boundaries. Finally, explore practical strategies for navigating commitment and maintaining healthy relationships.
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Poor Selection
- Bad relationships often stem from poor partner selection.
- Choose partners who are capable of healthy relationships.
Creating a Monster
- Many men unknowingly contribute to relationship problems.
- This happens by unintentionally reinforcing negative dynamics.
Temper Tantrum Example
- A child's temper tantrum demonstrates how rewarding bad behavior creates monsters.
- Giving in reinforces the very behavior you want to stop.
