Modern Wisdom #593 - Alex DatePsych - Why Is No One Having Sex?
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Feb 23, 2023 Join Alex DatePsych, a Neuroscience and Behavioral Science researcher specializing in dating and attractiveness, as he delves into the surprising decline in sexual activity. Discover how dating apps and societal changes are reshaping relationship dynamics. Alex discusses why young men may struggle more than ever in dating, the shifts in women’s sexual desire, and the implications of the Me Too movement. With insights on inceldom and the complexities of attraction, this conversation offers a thought-provoking look at modern romance.
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The Approach Paradox
- Men fear being seen as creepy when approaching women, but women don't inherently find approaches creepy.
- This disconnect creates confusion in dating, especially with online platforms adding to the complexity.
Navigating the Post-MeToo Era
- The MeToo movement aimed to sanitize creepy behavior, but may have sterilized healthy interactions.
- Be mindful of social norms, but accept rejection as part of dating.
Bill and Melinda Gates' First Date
- Bill Gates called Melinda, a receptionist, for a date three weeks out, but she found him insufficiently spontaneous.
- He called back 30 minutes later, offering the afternoon off; such behavior would now face criticism.
