
Something You Should Know The Human Need to Matter & The Enduring Appeal of Cats
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Feb 2, 2026 Jennifer Breheny Wallace, an award-winning journalist on relationships and well-being, and Jerry Moore, an archaeologist who writes about human-animal history, join to discuss why feeling significant matters and how cats became enduring companions. They explore when mattering falters, a simple nightly practice to notice it, cats’ surprising domestication story, ancient bonds, and the signals people often miss.
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Gratitude Rewires The Brain
- Gratitude practice changes brain circuits tied to reward and social connection.
- Short gratitude interventions can produce neural sensitivity that lasts weeks or months.
Mattering Drives Human Behavior
- The need to matter is a universal driver of behavior after basic survival needs.
- When people feel invisible they withdraw, become anxious, or lash out to prove they matter.
Two-Question Nightly Habit
- Keep a quick nightly habit: record when you felt valued and when you added value.
- This 30-second practice helps you notice small moments that confirm you matter.


