It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People Getting it Backwards in Family Court—Winners & Losers
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Jan 26, 2023 Navigating family court can be a daunting task, especially with high conflict personalities involved. The discussion dives into how emotional manipulation can skew perceptions, leaving the wrong parent painted as the villain. Misjudgments in cases of domestic violence and parental alienation are examined, illustrating the potential for tragic outcomes. The importance of open-mindedness and careful evidence gathering is emphasized to ensure fair resolutions, ultimately prioritizing the well-being of children.
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Persuasive Blamers Seem Credible
- People with personality disorders often genuinely believe false narratives and present as victims.
- Their intense emotion makes those false stories highly persuasive to others.
Emotion And Repetition Create 'Truth'
- Repetition plus emotion creates an illusion of truth that spreads fast.
- Social media amplifies emotional falsehoods, exploiting our brain's wiring.
Personality Patterns Drive Blame
- High-conflict behavior stems from cognitive distortions and low self-awareness.
- Cluster B traits (narcissistic, borderline, antisocial, histrionic) increase blaming and distortion.