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Ladies, We Need To Talk

'All Women Want' — how to have great sex, with Alyx Gorman

Mar 31, 2025
Alyx Gorman, lifestyle editor at The Guardian Australia and author of 'All Women Want,' dives deep into the complex world of female sexuality and pleasure. She addresses the significant orgasm gap between heterosexual women and men, emphasizing the need for better communication in sexual relationships. Alyx also explores generational differences in sexual practices, including the controversial topic of choking. With anecdotes from her experiences, including a revealing visit to a sex party, she encourages women to embrace their desires and enhance their sexual fulfillment.
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  • Alyx Gorman highlights the orgasm gap, revealing that heterosexual men climax in 90% of encounters compared to 60% for women.
  • Gorman advocates for a nuanced approach to sexual empowerment, emphasizing the importance of self-exploration and clear communication about individual desires.

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The Human Experience of Sexuality

The podcast delves into the raw and primal nature of human sexuality, as illustrated by Alex Gorman's vivid account of attending a large sex party for research. She describes the strong, musky scent that permeated the atmosphere, highlighting how this visceral experience served as a backdrop for her exploration of the complexities surrounding sexual fulfillment. Gorman emphasizes the notion that while many women struggle to articulate their desires, the environment created at such gatherings can open up discussions about pleasure and consent. Her firsthand observations set the stage for addressing broader issues regarding women's sexual experiences and the barriers they face in achieving satisfaction.

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