Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Can Our College Friendship Survive Adulthood?
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Jul 14, 2025 Friendship evolves, but what happens when it strains under the weight of adulthood? Two college friends face the bittersweet reality of growing apart due to life changes. They reflect on their cultural identities and the support they've offered each other through challenges. The conversation emphasizes open communication as they navigate feelings of neglect and conditional support. A fun card game is introduced to help rekindle their connection, proving that even amidst new partners, their bond can still thrive.
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Trauma Bonds Strengthen Friendship
- Emily was assaulted during college, and Olivia cared for her during a vulnerable moment.
- This experience cemented their deep friendship and mutual support foundation.
Friendship Evolves Post-College
- Friendship after college changes as partners and separate lives emerge.
- This often causes mismatched expectations and emotional distance between friends.
A Long Drive Turns Sour
- Olivia drove three and a half hours for Emily despite not wanting to and felt unappreciated.
- Emily later didn't drive her home and failed to check in, which triggered Olivia's resentment.
