

EP263 - How to Become a Cunnilingus Master with Dr. Alison Ash
11 snips Jan 4, 2022
Dr. Alison Ash, a trauma-informed sex and intimacy coach and Stanford lecturer, shares her expertise on cunnilingus. She discusses essential do’s and don’ts, focusing on communication and comfort for both partners. Techniques like 'writing the alphabet with your tongue' and the best positions for oral pleasure are explored. Dr. Ash also dismantles myths around body scents, emphasizing the importance of embracing naturalness. This enlightening conversation offers valuable insights for enhancing intimacy and sexual satisfaction.
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Communicate and Explore
- Communicate verbally and nonverbally about preferences before, during, and after sex.
- Every person's body and preferences are unique, so open communication is key for a satisfying experience.
Intimacy as a Dance
- Intimacy isn't about perfect skills; it's a dance of discovery with your partner.
- View sexual experiences as opportunities for exploration and connection rather than performance.
Body Acceptance and Affirmation
- Embrace natural body variations; there's no single standard for smell or appearance.
- Openly communicate preferences and offer affirmations to ease anxieties and foster acceptance.