PsycHacks Episode 4: How over what
Jul 13, 2021
Learn about the importance of focusing on 'how' over 'what' in relationships to stand out and strengthen connections. Everyone is unique and replaceable, so showing up in a distinctive way is crucial for building irreplaceable bonds.
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How vs. What
- In relationships, the "what" refers to the function or role we perform.
- The "how" refers to the unique way we execute that role.
Replaceable 'What'
- The "what" of a relationship, the function performed, is replaceable.
- Discharging the "what" earns the privilege of remaining in the relationship.
Prioritize How
- Prioritizing the "what" and neglecting the "how" makes you easily replaceable.
- To maintain relationships, prioritize the "how": your unique perspective and vibe.