The Hidden Cause Of Your Pain with Dr. Mark Mayfield

Jan 20, 2026

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In this thoughtful episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, host Karen Potter welcomes Dr. Mark Mayfield—former pastor, mental health counselor, certified Christian coach, and Assistant Professor of Clinical Mental Health Counseling at Colorado Christian University—for a timely conversation on loneliness, connection, and purpose.

Dr. Mayfield brings decades of ministry and counseling experience to help unpack why loneliness has become so widespread, how technology and culture have reshaped relationships, and why biblical community remains essential for emotional, spiritual, and mental health.

If you or someone you love feels disconnected, overwhelmed, or unsure how to build meaningful relationships, this episode offers wisdom, hope, and practical next steps.

✨ Episode Topics Discussed

• What’s driving the modern loneliness epidemic
• How smartphones and digital habits impact connection
• Why humans are wired for safe, trusting community
• The church’s role in addressing mental health needs
• Creating spaces for honest, meaningful relationships
• How faith provides purpose without eliminating struggle
• Why loneliness can impact mental and physical health
• Practical ways to walk through lonely seasons well
• How parents can foster connection at home
• Healthy boundaries, reciprocal relationships, and next steps

📘 Resources Mentioned

American Association of Christian Counselors (AACC) – https://aacc.net

Mental Health Made Simple – https://mentalhealthmadesimple.life

Dr. Mark Mayfield’s books & workbooks – https://www.amazon.com/s?k=Dr+Mark+Mayfield

⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – Teaser
00:21 – Introduction 00:46 – Why Loneliness Matters Today
01:48 – Dr. Mayfield’s Background & Work
04:09 – The Loneliness Epidemic & Cultural Shifts
07:00 – Community, Church, and God’s Design
09:40 – Gen Z, Connection, and the Church’s Opportunity
12:49 – Building Safe, Healthy Communities
15:55 – Faith, Purpose, and Human Connection
18:39 – Self-Awareness, Reflection, and Community
21:10 – Parenting, Home Culture, and Connection
25:37 – Loneliness, Anxiety, and Health Impacts
28:16 – Walking Through Lonely Seasons Well
32:38 – Helpful Resources & Support
33:50 – Final Encouragement & Wrap-Up

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