The Covenant Eyes Podcast

In this powerful episode of The Covenant Eyes Podcast, host Karen Potter sits down with Canadian pastor and recovery advocate Vern Tompke, creator of the Finding Traction and Pastors on P*rn podcasts. Vern shares his deeply personal story of overcoming p*rn*graphy addiction while serving in ministry — and how God turned his healing into a mission to help others.Together, Karen and Vern discuss:•  The unique challenges pastors face when struggling with p*rn•  How shame and burnout can fuel addiction•  Why accountability and community are essential for recovery•  How technology — and tools like Covenant Eyes — create safer environments•  The importance of churches embracing brokenness to foster healingWhether you’re a pastor, ministry leader, or someone seeking freedom from p*rn, this episode offers wisdom, hope, and practical tools for lasting transformation.Listen now to discover how faith, humility, and accountability can bring freedom and restoration.➡️ Learn more about Vern’s ministry: https://BandOfBrothers.care➡️ Pastors, get your resources here: https://cvnteyes.co/4fTsi9j➡️ Get Accountability with Covenant Eyes: https://cvnteyes.co/4gb6xme💬 Share your thoughts or prayer requests below — we’re in this together.#CovenantEyes #PornRecovery #FaithOverPorn #ChristianRecovery #PastorsOnPorn #FindingTraction #VernTompke #Accountability #FreedomFromPorn #ChurchHealing #SexualIntegrity #faithbasedhealing ⏱️  Chapters:00:00 – Welcome from Karen Potter00:45 – Introducing Pastor Vern Tompke01:10 – From Pastoral Ministry to P*rn Recovery02:10 – Creating Finding Traction & Pastors on P*rn03:00 – Why Pastors Hide Their Struggles04:15 – Vern’s Own Journey to Healing06:00 – Burnout and the “Perfect Storm” of Addiction08:00 – Finding Mentorship and Safe Spaces10:00 – Practical Steps for Recovery11:40 – Why Covenant Eyes is Essential13:00 – Understanding the Roots of Addiction15:00 – Relapse and Grace in the Recovery Journey17:00 – The Power of Gentle Accountability20:00 – Managing Technology and Triggers22:00 – Building Healthy Digital Boundaries23:00 – Social Media as a New P*rn Substitute26:00 – Church Culture and Brokenness28:00 – Why Churches Must Platform Healing31:00 – Examples of Courageous Churches33:00 – Where to Find Vern’s Podcasts34:00 – Final Thoughts and Gratitude to Covenant EyesSend us your feedback!Try Covenant Eyes for FREE today!Use Promo Code: FreePodcast © 2024 Covenant Eyes, All Rights Reserved

Can marriages heal after pornography, betrayal, and broken trust? Matt & Joanna Raabsmith join the Covenant Eyes Podcast to share their story, their healing framework, and hope for couples rebuilding intimacy and faith.In this episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, hosts Karen Potter and Theo McManigal sit down with Matt & Joanna Raabsmith—authors, speakers, and founders of a counseling practice for couples in recovery.Together, they discuss:📍 Their personal testimony of overcoming pornography addiction and betrayal trauma.📍 The framework they developed to help couples rebuild honesty, safety, trust, vulnerability, and intimacy.📍 The impact of pornography on Christian marriages and how couples can recognize and address it.📍 How the church can become a safe place for healing and recovery.📍 Free resources from their ministry to help couples stay connected daily.👉 Get the Raabsmiths’ free Daily Check-In resource: https://raabsmithteam.com/free📖 Their book: Building True Intimacy🔗 Learn more about their ministry: https://raabsmithteam.com🙏 If you or your marriage has been impacted by pornography, you are not alone. Find hope and tools at:https://cvnteyes.co/4gb6xme#covenanteyes #pornrecovery #christianmarriage #marriagerestoration Chapters0:00 – Welcome & intro with Karen & Theo0:46 – Meet Matt & Joanna Raabsmith1:08 – Their story: addiction, betrayal, and recovery3:08 – Lack of resources for couples & creating a framework4:21 – Key steps: honesty, safety, trust, intimacy7:12 – Fears & rebuilding vulnerability7:55 – The problem of pornography in Christian marriages9:32 – How pornography shapes values & destroys intimacy11:05 – Joanna on “feeling the void” when secrets are hidden12:12 – Generational impact of porn & sexual brokenness15:18 – Reshaping sexual narratives together16:10 – The church’s role in healing and accountability19:04 – Raabsmith resources & daily check-in tool20:14 – Closing thoughts and encouragement.Send us your feedback!Try Covenant Eyes for FREE today!Use Promo Code: FreePodcast © 2024 Covenant Eyes, All Rights Reserved

How can the church create safe spaces for healing from pornography and sexual brokenness? In this powerful conversation, Nick Stumbo from Pure Desire Ministry joins hosts Karen Potter and Rob Stoddard to talk about shame, recovery, and the hope of freedom in Christ.In this episode of The Covenant Eyes Podcast, Karen Potter and Rob Stoddard sit down with Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministry. Together, they explore how the church can respond to pornography and sexual addiction with grace, truth, and community.Nick shares his personal story of transformation and how Pure Desire provides resources, small groups, and counseling to help men, women, and couples find lasting freedom. The discussion covers:• Why shame keeps people silent and how churches can break that barrier• The importance of shifting our language from “you” to “we” when addressing sexual struggles• How generational differences impact views on pornography• Why both men and women need healing from sexual brokenness• Practical steps for pastors and church leaders to start recovery groups• How Pure Desire partners with Covenant Eyes to equip families and churches💡 Whether you’re a church leader, parent, or individual seeking freedom, this conversation offers hope and a clear pathway forward.🔗 Resources & Links:Pure Desire: https://puredesire.orgBook: Hope, Healing and Freedom by Nick Stumbo & Ashley JamesonLearn How Covenant Eyes Works: https://cvnteyes.co/4gb6xme#CovenantEyes #PureDesire #PornRecovery #FreedomInChrist #ChurchLeadership #OvercomingShameChapters:00:00 – Welcome & Introduction00:50 – Who is Nick Stumbo and Pure Desire Ministry?02:30 – How Pure Desire equips churches05:00 – The power of in-person groups & community06:50 – Breaking shame in the church09:10 – Changing the pronouns: from “you” to “we”12:30 – Generational differences in pornography struggles16:00 – Stories of healing across generations18:10 – Key findings from Beyond the Porn Phenomenon study20:45 – The rise of porn use among women23:30 – Helping Gen Z return to the church26:00 – Why silence in the church feeds shame28:20 – Building safe, structured communities33:00 – Paradigm shifts for pastors and leaders35:10 – Easy next steps for starting Pure Desire groups39:00 – New book: Hope, Healing and Freedom41:00 – Closing thoughts & resourcesSend us your feedback!Try Covenant Eyes for FREE today!Use Promo Code: FreePodcast © 2024 Covenant Eyes, All Rights Reserved

Struggling with shame, pornography, or unhealthy digital habits? In this powerful Covenant Eyes Podcast episode, Pastor Kyle Worley (author of Home With God and Formed for Fellowship, co-host of the Knowing Faith Podcast) shares how union with Christ transforms our identity and helps us find true freedom.Kyle opens up about his personal journey with hidden sin, how God met him in his shame, and why forgiveness isn’t the end goal—fellowship with God is. He also provides practical encouragement for parents raising children in today’s digital world and simple spiritual practices anyone can use to draw closer to God daily.📚 Books by Kyle Worley:• Home With God: Our Union with Christ• Formed for Fellowship🎙️ Listen to Kyle’s podcast: Knowing Faith Podcast:https://www.trainingthechurch.com/knowingfaith💡 Learn more about overcoming pornography and walking in freedom: https://cvnteyes.co/4gb6xme👍 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode to encourage someone today!#CovenantEyes #KyleWorley #UnionWithChrist #ChristianPodcast #OvercomingPorn #FaithAndFreedom #KnowingFaith #HomeWithGod #SpiritualGrowth #IdentityInChristTimestamps / Chapters00:00 – Welcome & Introduction00:31 – Kyle Worley’s story & ministry background01:25 – New book: Home With God02:35 – What union with Christ means for shame & pornography struggles04:11 – Spiritual disciplines that reshape our desires06:45 – Parenting in the digital age & guiding kids online09:35 – Practical daily practices to grow in faith11:29 – Encouragement for the weary & struggling13:39 – Living at home with God as beloved children14:48 – Kyle’s books & resources15:47 – Closing encouragement & subscribe reminderSend us your feedback!Try Covenant Eyes for FREE today!Use Promo Code: FreePodcast © 2024 Covenant Eyes, All Rights Reserved

What if Rudy grew up and went back to play college football at 59? Meet Mike Flynt, the real-life inspiration for Angel Studios’ new movie The Senior, hitting theaters September 19.In this powerful episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, host Karen Potter sits down with Mike Flynt to unpack the extraordinary true story that inspired The Senior—a film about second chances, redemption, and faith on and off the football field.At age 59, Mike returned to play college football, chasing the dream he thought was lost forever. His journey touches on faith, fatherhood, forgiveness, and the power of never giving up.🎥 The Senior Movie (Angel Studios) releases nationwide in theaters on September 19, 2025.⭐ Don’t miss Mike’s testimony of overcoming regret and discovering new purpose in Christ.🔗 Resources & Links:Learn more about Covenant Eyes: https://cvnteyes.co/4gb6xmeGet tickets for The Senior: https://www.angel.com/movies/seniorSubscribe for more inspiring interviews: https://youtube.com/@covenanteyes #TheSeniorMovie #MikeFlynt #AngelStudios #FaithAndFootball #CovenantEyesPodcast #RedemptionStory #ChristianFilm #MichaelChiklis #SecondChancesTimestamps:00:00 – Welcome & intro to The Senior01:00 – Movie trailer audio clip03:29 – Meet Mike Flynt: his story of redemption06:33 – Friday Night Lights connection09:44 – From coaching to comeback at age 5912:24 – Playing with faith and a new purpose15:21 – Family reactions & support18:15 – How the film came to be21:14 – Cast: Michael Chiklis, Mary Stuart Masterson & more23:01 – Redemption, forgiveness, and faith through film25:35 – Why The Senior matters today26:21 – Closing encouragementSend us your feedback!Try Covenant Eyes for FREE today!Use Promo Code: FreePodcast © 2024 Covenant Eyes, All Rights Reserved

In this episode of The Covenant Eyes Podcast, host Rob Stoddard sits down with Jerry McCorkle, founder of Spread Truth, to explore what it means to equip Christians to share the gospel with confidence.From the streets of New York City to ministry efforts in Kenya, Jerry shares how Spread Truth provides practical resources, training, and real-life experiences that prepare believers for everyday evangelism. You’ll learn about the powerful impact of The Story booklet and film, how storytelling builds meaningful connections, and why sharing your faith is a vital part of discipleship.Whether you’re a pastor, a church leader, or a believer wanting to grow in outreach, this episode will inspire you to take the next step in spreading the hope of Jesus.👉 Learn more about Spread Truth: https://spreadtruth.com_______________________________________Learn More About Covenant Eyes:https://cvnteyes.co/4gb6xme_______________________________________⏱ Timestamps0:00 – Introduction with Karen & Rob1:07 – Jerry McCorkle’s journey and the birth of Spread Truth3:09 – Training believers for evangelism in New York City4:20 – The Story: A simple way to share the gospel7:30 – How Spread Truth partners with local churches11:20 – Encouragement for those who feel unqualified13:20 – Overcoming sin struggles while sharing the gospel15:40 – Kenya ministry and outreach initiatives18:50 – How to get involved with trips and resources21:01 – Closing thoughts and encouragementSend us your feedback!Try Covenant Eyes for FREE today!Use Promo Code: FreePodcast © 2024 Covenant Eyes, All Rights Reserved

Struggling with p*rnography? You’re not alone. In this episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, hosts Karen Potter and Theo McManigal sit down with Dann Aungst, founder of Road to Purity and author of From One Addict to Another and 40 Days to Freedom. Dann shares his powerful 30-year journey through addiction, his path to recovery, and how God’s grace transformed his life and marriage.💡 In this conversation, you’ll learn:• Why p*rnography is only a symptom of deeper wounds• How trauma, identity, and childhood experiences fuel addiction• The importance of addressing root causes—not just behaviors• Resources and tools for individuals, marriages, parents, and clergy• How Covenant Eyes and Road to Purity partner to provide hope and accountability🔔 Subscribe to Covenant Eyes for more resources, stories, and practical tools to live p*rn-free: https://youtube.com/@covenanteyes 📖 Learn more about Dann Aungst & Road to Purity: https://roadtopurity.com🌐 Learn More About Covenant Eyes:https://cvnteyes.co/4gb6xme⏱ Timestamps0:00 – Welcome with Karen & Theo1:19 – Introducing Dann Aungst & his story2:15 – Addiction beyond *orn: the deeper roots6:00 – Childhood trauma & false identity9:32 – Restoring God’s Foundation program15:00 – Helping seminarians & clergy18:00 – Marriage isn’t the cure for p*rn addiction21:05 – Resources for recovery & accountability28:05 – How Covenant Eyes supports healing30:49 – Dann’s closing message of hope🙏 If this episode encouraged you, please like, share, and comment below. Your engagement helps more people discover the hope and freedom found in Christ.Send us your feedback!Try Covenant Eyes for FREE today!Use Promo Code: FreePodcast © 2024 Covenant Eyes, All Rights Reserved

Find the book (Un)Intentional by Doug Smith here:https://www.amazon.com/Intentional-Screens-Secretly-Shape-Desires/dp/1625861966Doug Smith's Website:https://thatdougsmith.com/Watch more episodes of The Covenant Eyes Podcast:https://www.youtube.com/@covenanteyes_____________________________________________________In this second part of a powerful two-part interview, Covenant Eyes' Karen Potter sits down with Doug Smith, author of "Unintentional," to discuss artificial intelligence and its impact on ministry and the family. Doug unpacks the sinister design behind AI chatbots like ChatGPT and Gemini and how they are creating a "race to intimacy". He discusses the heartbreaking reality of AI-generated pornography, deepfakes, and sextortion, and how AI is being used to prey on children.Doug also warns ministry leaders about the dangers of using AI as a tool and the risk of becoming less discerning as a result. He explains the spiritual battle at play and the ways AI can become a modern-day idol. This episode serves as an urgent call to action to protect your family and be intentional in the face of rapidly changing technology.Timestamps:00:00: Introduction to Part 2 with Mike Stone00:33: The downfalls of AI for ministry leaders01:55: The "race to intimacy" and deceptive nature of AI04:08: The dark side of AI: deepfakes, AI pornography, and sextortion08:29: The "not my kid" fallacy and how AI dehumanizes people09:34: The concept of AI as a modern idol12:05: How AI shapes worldviews for Christians13:13: Balancing life in a tech-saturated world29:13: Learn more from Doug SmithSend us your feedback!Try Covenant Eyes for FREE today!Use Promo Code: FreePodcast © 2024 Covenant Eyes, All Rights Reserved

Find the book (Un)Intentional by Doug Smith here:https://www.amazon.com/Intentional-Screens-Secretly-Shape-Desires/dp/1625861966Doug Smith's Website:https://thatdougsmith.com/Watch more episodes of The Covenant Eyes Podcast:https://www.youtube.com/@covenanteyes____________________________________________________In Part of a two-part interview, Covenant Eyes' Karen Potter and author Doug Smith discuss technology's impact on families and the church. Doug, a software engineer and a father of four, shares his unique perspective on tech and discipleship. He explains that technology companies exploit human psychology by using behavioral modification techniques to create addiction, likening the process to a "petri dish generation". He also discusses how the p*rnography industry is using these same techniques to target children. This episode offers parents practical strategies, such as setting screen-free mealtimes and removing screens from bedrooms, to become more intentional with technology.Key Takeaways:⭐ Learn about Doug Smith’s background and his motivation for writing his book, Unintentional.⭐ Discover the difference between “intentional” and “unintentional” tech usage.⭐ Explore why a screen-free youth group could be the key to authentic connection.Timestamps:00:00:06: Introduction to the episode and Doug Smith00:00:50: Doug Smith's background and bio00:01:21: Why Doug wrote the book, Unintentional00:02:12: The idea of being a "petri dish generation"00:03:02: The difference between tools and a “tech system”00:06:05: How the tech industry uses behavioral psychology00:07:34: The p*rnography industry as an example of behavioral modification00:10:04: Using technology intentionally00:13:00: The impact of screens on family life00:15:00: Practical strategies for parents00:17:01: A call to action for ministry leaders00:20:02: The church as a place for authentic, screen-free relationships00:20:49: The importance of being present and engaged00:22:20: The future of technology and discipleship00:24:00: The role of technology in shaping our lives and faith00:28:15: The importance of keeping our eyes on Jesus00:29:13: How to learn more from Doug Smith and his book#CovenantEyes #DougSmith #Parenting #FaithAndTechnology #DigitalAddictionSend us your feedback!Try Covenant Eyes for FREE today!Use Promo Code: FreePodcast © 2024 Covenant Eyes, All Rights Reserved

Official Light of the World Movie website:https://lightoftheworld.com/The Covenant Eyes Podcast welcomes Brennan McPherson, producer of Light of the World and president of the Salvation Poem Project. This powerful new animated feature film tells the story of Jesus through the eyes of the Apostle John—and it’s coming to theaters worldwide on September 5, 2025.In this conversation, host Rob Stoddard talks with Brennan about:🎥  The vision behind Light of the World🎥. Why the film was created in hand-drawn, 2D animation🎥. The challenges of producing a gospel-centered animated film with a team of over 600 people🎥. Why they chose John’s perspective to tell the story of Jesus🎥. Brennan’s personal journey of faith and the hope he wants families to take away from this film🌍 Light of the World will premiere in theaters across the U.S., Canada, Central and South America, Europe, and Australia. Learn more, get tickets, and explore free resources at 👉 https://LightoftheWorld.com🔔 SUBSCRIBE FOR MORE INSPIRING CONVERSATIONS:https://youtube.com/@covenanteyes📌 RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:Free church curriculum & family devotionalshttps://lightoftheworld.com/resources/BEHIND-THE-SCENES VIDEOS & ACTIVITIES FOR KIDS:https://lightoftheworld.com/minigames/UPCOMING CHRISTIAN VIDEO PROJECTS FROM SALVATION POEM:https://salvationpoem.com/our-work/clayfire/🙏 If this episode encouraged you, don’t forget to like, comment, and share with your friends and church community.CHAPTER LIST:0:00 – Welcome & Introduction (Rob Stoddard introduces Brennan McPherson)0:41 – Brennan’s Story & The Salvation Poem Project2:15 – The Vision Behind Light of the World2:46 – Why Tell the Story Through John’s Eyes3:53 – Release Date & Global Theater Launch (September 5, 2025)4:34 – Building the Team & Disney Animators Involved5:50 – 600 People, 3.5 Years: The Making of the Film6:07 – Why Choose 2D Hand-Drawn Animation8:18 – A Film for the Whole Family (Not Just Kids)9:07 – Sneak Peek: Light of the World Movie Clip11:19 – The Goal: Helping Families Fall in Love with Jesus12:50 – Brennan’s Favorite Scene (Jesus Weeping)14:30 – Why John’s Perspective Matters16:24 – Free Resources at LightoftheWorld.com17:36 – What’s Next: Games, Music, & More Films19:34 – Brennan’s Personal Faith Story & Encouragement21:56 – Closing Thoughts & Call to ActionSend us your feedback!Try Covenant Eyes for FREE today!Use Promo Code: FreePodcast © 2024 Covenant Eyes, All Rights Reserved