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Sexual compatibility doesn't mean that you both agree to have sex twice a week. It is a qualitative, not a quantitative, concept, and one which is hard to describe for many. Thankfully, I've never met an idea that I can't talk for 15 minutes about, so hopefully this episode can help you articulate what you may be looking for in a sexual partner in order to feel attuned and fulfilled long term.