Shameless Sex

#502 Premature Ejaculation and How to Last Longer In Bed

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Sep 8, 2026
Jeff Abraham, CEO of sexual-wellness brand Promescent, joins the conversation on premature ejaculation, treatment options, and the surprising role of SSRIs. They explore women’s arousal, libido, and sensation challenges, plus delay sprays, warming gels, and buzzing products. Communication, curiosity, toys, and shared pleasure take center stage over performance pressure.
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ANECDOTE

From Semiconductors To Sexual Wellness

  • Jeff Abraham entered sexual wellness after retiring from semiconductors and investing in urologist Ronald Gilbert’s delay-spray company.
  • He discovered the product worked, then used business expertise and clinical research to grow it after Gilbert’s death.
INSIGHT

When Lasting Longer Costs Libido

  • SSRIs can increase ejaculatory latency, but may also reduce libido and cause nausea, dry mouth, or difficulty orgasming.
  • Jeff Abraham argues that lasting longer is not useful if the medication eliminates the desire for sex.
ANECDOTE

A 23-Year Silence About Ejaculation

  • A woman told Jeff Abraham that her husband had never lasted more than 20 seconds during 23 years of marriage.
  • They had never discussed it, illustrating how shame can keep couples from seeking simple solutions.
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