In this episode, Bill and Marty welcome guest Dr. Kathy Nielsen, a multidisciplinary scholar and software engineering professional. They discuss Kathy’s unique journey from computer programming in the Cayman Islands to teaching at the University of Colorado. The discussion weaves through themes of compassion, love, and what it means to truly know oneself. Highlights include reflections on spirituality, perceptions of inner and outer worlds, and the significance of recognizing one's heart and love in diverse roles and experiences.
About Dr. Kathy:
Dr. Kathy Nielson is a multi-disciplinary scholar and software engineering professional who has designed and built systems in different domains. She worked as an agile product engineering coach, helping teams learn, grow, and create together. She’’s especially interested in how both students and professionals develop their craft — and in the power of collaboration to share knowledge and create together. Outside of work, you’ll find her at the piano, chanting kirtan, exploring with her dog, or simply soaking in the beauty of the world around her.
Contact Dr. Kathy:
Websites: https://chimerising.org/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drkathy/
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome
00:54 Kathy Nielsen's Background and Achievements
03:08 Exploring the Concept of the True Self
05:50 The Philosophy of True Self and Love
07:30 Practical Examples and Personal Stories
12:00 Internal Family Systems and True Self
16:53 Navigating Life's Challenges with True Self
21:46 The Role of Love in Different Life Phases
23:04 Exploring Unconditional Love Through Music
24:29 Finding Beauty in Nature
26:25 The Relationship Between Internal and External Worlds
27:25 A Transformative Experience in Nature
30:46 The Concept of Awe and Beauty
31:42 The Intersection of Internal and External Realities
34:15 Guiding Groups to Inner Awareness
36:02 The Complexity of Inside and Outside
37:59 The Power of Naming Emotions
39:00 Reflections on Youth and Technology
40:18 Concluding Thoughts on Choice and Awareness
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