Ladies, We Need To Talk Great sex: What we wish men knew
Dec 29, 2025
Comedian Nikki Britton shares her humorous insights on the pitfalls of modern dating and the importance of clitoral anatomy in achieving satisfaction. Sex therapist Aleks Trkulja discusses the differences in male and female sexual responses, emphasizing the value of slow, attentive intimacy over quick thrusts. They explore how effective communication and positive feedback can enhance pleasure, while also debunking unrealistic standards set by mainstream porn. Join this enlightening conversation that redefines what great sex means for everyone.
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Clitoral Stimulation Is Central
- Most women require clitoral stimulation to orgasm and penetration alone often won't suffice.
- Aleks Trkulja explains anatomical and response differences between cis men and cis women that shape satisfaction.
Different Sexual Arousal Timelines
- Men's sexual response often turns on quickly like a gas stove while women's arousal builds gradually like a pot of water.
- Aleks Trkulja suggests 'planting horny seeds' during the day to align arousal timing.
Plant Horny Seeds Daily
- Plant 'horny seeds' with compliments, sexy texts and small affectionate actions throughout the day.
- These gestures help build arousal so partners' sexual timing better aligns during encounters.