The Psychology of your 20s 294. The psychology of the talking stage
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May 9, 2025 Dive into the perplexing world of the talking stage, where dating complexities abound. Discover why this phase can feel so intense and what drives people to get stuck in it. Explore the one-month rule and learn key signs that signal you're not progressing. Plus, gain insights on finding closure and avoiding emotional attachment too quickly. Packed with practical advice, this discussion offers a roadmap for navigating modern relationships with confidence.
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The Talking Stage Explained
- The talking stage is a modern dating phase mainly for information gathering before dating.
- It emerged in the last 15 years, fueled by dating apps and more options making commitment harder.
One Month Talking Stage Rule
- Limit the talking stage to one month maximum before meeting in person.
- Use dates to truly get to know someone, texting alone can create illusions.
Profiles Who Prolong Talking Stage
- People who love extended talking stages often show low commitment readiness or anxious-avoidant attachment styles.
- They may want intimacy but avoid dating to dodge commitment and emotional closeness.