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The Jordan Harbinger Show

1035: James Sexton | A Divorce Lawyer's Guide to Lasting Love Part One

Aug 20, 2024
James Sexton, a renowned divorce lawyer, shares his expertise on maintaining healthy marriages and avoiding divorce. He highlights that marriage has a 56% failure rate and emphasizes the importance of proactive relationship maintenance. Sexton warns that constant criticism, even in jest, can be toxic. He delves into the complexities of emotional openness and how past experiences shape relationship dynamics. Listeners are encouraged to consider practical motivations behind marriage and to communicate respectfully for more meaningful connections.
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  • Marriage carries a significant risk with a 56% failure rate, highlighting the importance of understanding its complexities and dynamics.
  • Recognizing that a partner's fundamental traits rarely change during marriage is crucial to avoid compounding existing issues and conflicts.

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The Complexity of Love and Marriage

Marriage is portrayed as the most legally significant commitment a person can undertake, second only to death. The dynamics of falling in and out of love demonstrate that romantic feelings can surface rapidly and intensely, akin to a chemically-induced high. However, the process of falling out of love often occurs gradually, until it culminates in a sudden realization, leaving individuals feeling as though they've crashed after once flying high. Understanding this complexity can help individuals prepare for the emotional lows that can accompany a romantic relationship.

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