I studied martial arts for 13 years when I was younger and I became proficient in three different styles of Karate and Kenpo. As you progress towards being a black belt, the fundamentals don't change, but your ability to be more precise and skilled in using those fundamentals improves dramatically. 

Like in my martial arts training to being a better lover, the fundamentals such as communication, touch and being present with arousal, and so on don't change. But your ability to use those fundamentals to be better at sex hat's deeply connecting as well as giving and receiving pleasure to strengthen your marriage. All those improve. As you become more quote unquote black belt at at sex. 

I occasionally ask my podcast guests for their black belt sex tips. And it's been over a year since I've done a Roundup of the best black belt sex tips offered by my guests on this podcast. So today, I've compiled the best into this episode. 

If you like what you've heard from these guests and want to go back for more, here are the links to the full episodes:

Sofia Ashley - #212: Create A Party Your Libido Wants To Come To)

Catherine Roebuck - #214: When Wives Have The Higher Sexual Desire

Josie McEwen - #167: Successful Vacation Sex & Romantic Getaways, According to a Romance Consultant

Jessa Zimmerman - #217: Eroticism: What Does Your Sexuality Want? 

Adam and Karissa King - #219: How Playing With Your 5 Senses Opens the Door to More Erotic Connection

Dan Purcell & Rhonda Farr - #209: Stop Trying to Change Your Marriage. Let Your Marriage Change You Instead.

Ally Bullock - #203: Why Honesty, Risk, and some Fair Play Lead To Great Connection with Alyson Bullock

Tammy Camp - #151: How a “Good Girl” and Her Husband Bravely Chose a Better Sex Life: A Sextimony

Francie Winslow - #178: Why Christians Should Be Having the Best Sex

Tilly Storm - #210: The G-Spot Guide: How to Stimulate, Explore, and Enjoy Together!

Heather Flake - #158: The #1 Limiting Factor in Your Sex Life, According to a Marriage Expert

Tammy Hill - #179: Having An Orgasm vs Living Orgasmically: What’s the difference?

Dr. Julie Slattery - #181: 4 Pillars to Take Intimacy From Sub-optimal to First-Rate, Both In and Out of the Bedroom

Glenn & Phyllis Hill - #183: The Anatomy of Emotional Intimacy & Connection Codes and #184: Anatomy of a Sex Date

Laurie Watson - #149: Afraid Your Husband Will Reject or Ignore You AGAIN tonight?

Alex & Kadi Dutton - #130: Lingerie? YES PLEASE! with Alex and Kadi of EveryLove Intimates

Mark Goldberg - #193: The Fast and Furious: Over-Coming Premature Ejaculation

Sierra Beltran - #170: Behold Your Beautiful Body Through the Lens of Boudoir Photography!

Ariel Finlinson - #164: Creating Space for Moms (and Dads) to Feel Like They Are in Control Again

Tammy Hill - #201: The Art of Cherishing Your Spouse, Part 2

Danielle Savory - #201: The Art of Cherishing Your Spouse, Part 2

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife - #200: The Art of Cherishing Your Spouse, Part 1

Katheleen Smith - #195: Are You a “Sexual Over-functioner?”

Bonnie Young - #168: How Your Marital Power Dynamics Are Affecting Your Sexual Relationship

Resources

If you're in an otherwise happy marriage, but struggle to see eye to eye when it comes to sexual intimacy, I highly recommend you check out our upcoming couples retreat for next March (hurry--prices go up in the new year!).

Check out our Get Your Marriage On Program. These programs are effective at helping you and your spouse communicate better about these things in a relationship and really move the needle in the positive direction.

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