Conversations with a Dom

E5: How to Introduce Kink and D/s Into Your Relationship

Oct 28, 2021
Guest
Chief
Guest
Moineau
Experts from KinkyEvents.co.uk Chief and Moineau discuss introducing kink and D/s dynamics in relationships. They delve into overcoming nervousness and shame, using sex menus, sharing porn, and setting judgment-free zones. Tips for beginners in Dom/sub dynamics and common issues encountered are also covered.
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ADVICE

Sex Menu for Communication

  • Create a sex menu and rank kinks from hard limits to must-haves.
  • This facilitates open communication and understanding between partners.
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Sharing Porn and Erotica

  • Share porn or erotic fiction to discover each other's turn-ons and communicate desires.
  • Explain why you find specific content arousing to foster understanding and intimacy.
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Judgment-Free Zone

  • Establish a judgment-free zone when discussing kinks, especially in D/s dynamics.
  • Level the power dynamic to encourage open and honest communication without pressure.
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