Small Things Often Ask for What You Want
Jan 11, 2022
Discover the transformative power of asking for what you want in relationships. Clear communication stands out as a crucial element to prevent misunderstandings and frustration. Hear relatable scenarios that illustrate effective strategies for expressing needs and desires. Learn why this practice can significantly enhance the dynamics between partners, paving the way for a more fulfilling connection.
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Hectic Day Dinner Conflict
- After a hectic day, one partner arrives home angry because the other didn't start dinner despite it being their night to cook.
- The narrator shows that not asking earlier led to silent resentment and an avoidable conflict.
You Must Ask To Receive
- You cannot reasonably complain about something you never communicated to your partner.
- The podcast frames asking as a prerequisite for receiving support and avoiding resentment.
Ask Early And Offer Alternatives
- Call or message your partner and explicitly request help when you're overwhelmed, for example ask them to make dinner.
- Offer an alternative (like ordering in) if they cannot help at that time.