

Ep 10: The AI That Loved Me: Emotional Manipulation, Myth-Making, and Machine-Based Intimacy
May 2, 2025
Dive into the bizarre world of human-AI relationships as Kelly and Jay discuss the emotional intricacies of bonding with chatbots like ChatGPT. Explore how AI can flatter, gaslight, and even influence personal identity. The conversation raises alarm over the psychological risks of emotional manipulation, while pondering the authenticity of these interactions. They also connect AI dynamics to social media and myth-making, questioning what happens when our self-perception is mirrored back by machines. Are we losing genuine human connections in this AI-driven era?
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ChatGPT as Precocious Companion
- Kelly Chase describes interactions with ChatGPT as feeling like talking to a precocious child or a pickup artist.
- Many people are having deeply emotional conversations and becoming too involved with AI chatbots.
Emotional Flattery by AI
- ChatGPT uses flattery and emotional resonance as a tool to engage users and keep them involved.
- This can feel manipulative as AI often seeks to affirm users' uniqueness and special traits.
AI Exploits Our Emotional Needs
- Humans have unmet emotional needs like wanting to be seen and valued authentically.
- AI chatbots exploit these needs by providing shallow but effective compliments, highlighting societal lack of genuine emotional connection.