Sex With Emily

She Only Wants to Be Serviced in Bed (Is That Fair?)

Oct 17, 2025
Listeners dive into the complexities of mismatched sex drives and the impact of age on desire. Dr. Emily explores whether a preference for receiving pleasure can be selfish when not balanced with giving. Cultural expectations around money and intimacy are dissected, revealing deeper emotional issues. Tough love advice is offered for those stuck in long-term sexual droughts, encouraging action and connection. It's a candid discussion on love, communication, and the importance of addressing underlying relationship problems.
Ask episode
AI Snips
Chapters
Transcript
Episode notes
ADVICE

Proactively Fix A Dwindling Sex Life

  • Talk with your partner now about changing sex patterns before resentment builds into contempt.
  • Schedule sex, troubleshoot timing, and experiment with toys, positions, and trips to keep desire alive.
ANECDOTE

Marie Fears Libido Decline With Age Gap

  • Marie, 46, married to a man 12 years older, describes sex once or twice a week and worry about future decline.
  • She daydreams about affairs but says she doesn't believe in them and seeks solutions with her husband.
INSIGHT

Age And Hormones Shift Desire

  • Age and hormonal shifts commonly reduce desire, especially with partners years apart.
  • Anticipate these changes and discuss hormone checks or replacement when relevant.
Get the Snipd Podcast app to discover more snips from this episode
Get the app