Calm Parenting Podcast Demanding Kids Who Argue When Told No: 3 Strategies That Work #498
Jul 13, 2025
Explore effective strategies for managing strong-willed kids who resist authority and often spark power struggles. Learn how to validate their feelings while setting firm boundaries. Discover the benefits of empowering children by giving them responsibilities that enhance their decision-making skills. Shift from a focus on mere obedience to guidance, transforming conflicts into valuable learning experiences and strengthening family bonds in the process.
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Handling Late-Night Project Focus
- When a child is fixated on finishing a project past bedtime, offer them clear choices to avoid a power struggle.
- Options include firmly saying no, postponing with a positive offer, or allowing completion with supervision.
Say Yes Within Boundaries
- Instead of immediately saying no, affirm your child's interest positively before setting boundaries.
- Say yes to something appropriate within limits to encourage their enthusiasm without a power struggle.
Ownership Encourages Responsibility
- Give your child ownership and responsibility in areas they enjoy, like making coffee.
- Set clear expectations about cleanup and consequences without lectures to foster responsibility.