Open to Debate David Brooks on the Art of Seeing and Hearing Others
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Dec 29, 2023 
David Brooks, New York Times columnist, discusses his book 'How to Know a Person' and shares strategies for fostering connections with people who have different perspectives. He emphasizes the importance of listening, understanding, and making others feel seen and appreciated. The podcast explores the decline of social trust, the joy of truly knowing others, and the impact of loneliness on political activism. It also provides techniques for engaging with people who lack curiosity and strategies for keeping debates as learning exercises. David Brooks reflects on his personal journey of emotional growth and overcoming defensive architecture.
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Crisis of Connection
- We are living in a crisis of connection, marked by rising rates of suicide, depression, and social isolation.
- This crisis stems from various factors, including social media, income inequality, and a decline in civic engagement, but primarily a lack of social and moral skills.
Teach Social Skills
- Teach young people essential social skills like how to end relationships respectfully.
- This can help rebuild trust and improve social interactions by reducing ghosting and promoting healthy communication.
The Power of Attention
- David Brooks recounts a story about witnessing a pastor named Jimmy Dorelle greet a 93-year-old woman, LaRue Dorsey, with enthusiastic affection.
- This simple act of attention transformed Dorsey from a stern figure into a joyful, childlike presence, highlighting the power of human connection.