The chapter highlights the importance of listening in understanding others and discusses the need to make others feel understood before trying to change their perspective. It emphasizes the importance of scaling back competitiveness and aggression in arguments and debates, and provides techniques for keeping debates as learning exercises rather than hostile competitions.
With polarization rising within our society and two wars encouraging division, people are feeling more afraid to engage with people who have differing perspectives. How can we solve that issue, build deeper connections, and get to know someone? New York Times columnist David Brooks says you help them feel seen and understood. John Donvan sits down with Brooks to discuss his book “How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen”, how to foster connections in daily life, and offers a solution to a society in need of appreciating each other’s differences.
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