609: The Song That Changed My Outlook On Life & Transformed My Marriage

Oct 29, 2025

Discover how a transformative song reshaped Hal's views on love and gratitude during a challenging moment in his marriage. He highlights the powerful impact of lyrics and reflects on what truly matters in life—our relationships. Journaling gratitude emerges as a tool for reclaiming joy and appreciation for loved ones. Hal emphasizes reconnecting not just with partners, but with family and self, reminding us that love is at the heart of our experiences. Tune in for insights that inspire deeper connections and personal growth!

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ANECDOTE

Song Shifted Perspective During Conflict

Hal Elrod heard Teddy Swims' song during a petty argument with his wife and it reframed the fight's importance.
The song reminded him that the small conflicts didn't matter compared to their commitment and history.

ADVICE

Focus On Relationships You Can Influence

Apply the song's message to relationships you can still influence, not only romantic ones.
Consider family, friends, and anyone you can positively affect when prioritizing what matters.

INSIGHT

Relationships Outlast Achievements

Hal realized that at the end of life the relationships we build matter more than achievements or possessions.
He cites John Vroman's shift from chasing success metrics to valuing family and connection as a wake-up call.

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I think most people would agree that music, and especially lyrics, is one of the most powerful forms of human expression. If you've ever heard a song that just resonated so strongly with what's going on in your life and made you rethink what truly matters, I think you'll relate to this episode.

Today, I'm talking about a song from Teddy Swims that completely shifted my perspective on love, gratitude, and what's most important in life. At the time, I was in the midst of a petty argument with my wife and dealing with conflict in my marriage. It was a great reminder that, in the end, love and connection in our relationships are what life is all about.

So, if you're dealing with some challenging situations in your life, my hope is that this episode inspires you to pause and take a moment, grab your journal, or apply it to your S.A.V.E.R.S., and write down some of the things or people you're grateful for. It worked for me, and I hope it will work for you too.

P.S. I also wanted to let you know that you can pre-order the newest book in the Miracle Morning series, The Miracle Morning After 50: A Proven Path to Joy, Vitality, and Purpose for Aging Adults. This book blends personal development strategies with science backed approaches to thriving in the second half of life. Enjoy!

KEY TAKEAWAYS

The Power of Music and How Lyrics Can Impact Us
How One Song Helped Transform Hal's Perspective
The Simple Truth About What Really Matters In Life
Take Time to Allow Yourself to Truly Feel Joy and Gratitude
How to Apply "All That Really Matters" to Any Relationship In Your Life

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