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Conversations with a Dom

E38: Stop Overthinking Your Dom/sub Dynamic

Dec 20, 2023
The podcast discusses the dangers of overthinking in BDSM scenes and Dom/sub dynamics, highlighting the importance of communication, setting boundaries, and staying present. It explores simplifying scenes, energy dynamics, consent, aftercare, and self-discovery for a fulfilling DS relationship.
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Quick takeaways

  • Avoid overthinking in D/s dynamics for a smoother experience.
  • Focus on personalized roles and clear communication in DS relationships.

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Overthinking in DS Relationships

Overthinking in dominance and submission (DS) relationships can hinder the natural flow and enjoyment of the dynamic. The podcast discusses how individuals often get caught up in overthinking specific details of their DS interactions, which can lead to unnecessary stress and complexity. Chief emphasizes that DS is about one partner having slightly more power, with the other consensually giving up control for a period of time. By simplifying scenes and focusing on the power dynamic rather than intricate details, participants can foster a healthier and more authentic DS relationship.

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