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In The Light with Dr. Anita Phillips

Good Intentions

May 25, 2020
Therapist Danae Wheatley joins Dr. Anita to discuss recovering from codependency in relationships, exploring signs and misconceptions, creating safe spaces, redefining safety, and navigating one-sided relationships. They emphasize the importance of self-reflection, forgiveness, and keeping promises made to oneself.
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  • Codependency is a learned behavior that can be traced back to childhood experiences and requires therapy and self-work to overcome.
  • When supporting a friend in a domestic violence situation, creating a safe space for open conversations and encouraging redefining safety is crucial, but friends should also seek their own therapy to avoid becoming overwhelmed.

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Recognizing Codependency Patterns

Codependency is a learned behavior that affects one's ability to have a healthy, mutually satisfying relationship. It often stems from childhood experiences and can manifest in various ways. Symptoms include prioritizing others' opinions, difficulty expressing true feelings, fear of being alone, and a constant need to please others. To recover from codependency, it is important to trace it back to its roots, acknowledge the basis of the behavior, and work on building a strong sense of self. Seeking therapy, setting boundaries, and allowing oneself to receive love and support are crucial steps towards healing.

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