Jillian on Love

How to Attract a Healthy Partner

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Sep 22, 2025
Ever wonder why you attract the wrong partners? Unconscious blocks like distrust and societal narratives might be the culprits. Fear of not feeling 'enough' can lead to self-sabotage in relationships. Staying with toxic individuals only delays finding the right one. Learning to recognize these patterns can pave the way for healthier connections. Dive into self-awareness and vulnerability to transform your love life!
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INSIGHT

Resentment Creates Dating Blindspots

  • Holding collective resentment or fear toward a gender creates bodily distrust in dates and blocks connection.
  • Jillian urges acknowledging societal and personal wounds so you can give good people a chance.
ANECDOTE

Coffee Shop Moment During Separation

  • Jillian recalled feeling terrified of men while processing her separation and sitting in a coffee shop.
  • That visceral fear illustrated how pain can generalize into seeing potential partners as enemies.
ADVICE

Learn What Your Partner Actually Needs

  • Practice empathy by learning what men and women uniquely fear and need in relationships.
  • Use that empathy to soften distrust and improve how you relate to potential partners.
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