The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}

Ep. 48: The Safe & Sound Protocol: Strengthening the Foundation of the Brain

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Aug 24, 2021
Melissa Corkum, co-founder of The Adoption Connection Podcast and an adoptive mom, shares her expertise on the Safe and Sound Protocol, a tool designed to enhance emotional safety for children. She discusses the neuroception system and how sound cues contribute to feelings of security, especially for those affected by trauma. Melissa also reflects on her personal journey as an adoptee, highlighting the importance of understanding behavior through neurological lenses. Unpacking practical strategies for parenting, she emphasizes community support and innovative approaches for fostering connection.
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ANECDOTE

Melissa's Adoption Journey

  • Melissa Corkum, an adoptee, married a man who wanted to adopt.
  • Their first adoption was challenging, leading her to study trauma and attachment.
INSIGHT

Neuroception and Sound

  • Our neuroception constantly scans for safety cues, often misinterpreted after trauma.
  • Sound is a primary input for neuroception; we instinctively adjust our voice for infants.
ANECDOTE

Forgotten Pickup

  • Melissa forgot to pick up her neurotypical son, who reacted with understanding.
  • However, her other children with trauma would have likely reacted differently.
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