Dating expert and communication strategist Matt Monday shares 17 high-value texting suggestions for better communication in any dating situation, from restarting attraction to fostering emotional connection. Topics include being responsive, varying communication forms, avoiding premature date planning, and creating momentum in dating.
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Send meaningful and engaging text messages by jumping into something meaningful and paying a unique compliment, while also being upfront about what you want and inviting the other person to take the lead in making plans.
Keep the conversation lively by using different communication mediums such as pictures or voice memos to inject new life into the conversation, and recognize the value of face-to-face communication while being versatile in your energy and communication style.
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Creating meaningful text messages
One strategy to accelerate your love life is to send text messages that are more meaningful and engaging. Instead of small talk, jump into something meaningful and pay a unique compliment to the dynamic you have with the person. Another approach is to be vulnerable and upfront about what you want, putting the ball in their court to invite them to take the lead in making plans. Avoid playing games about when to text back and instead use the momentum of the moment to have a conversation.
Exploring different communication mediums
Texting can become monotonous over time, leading to diminishing returns. To keep the conversation lively, consider using different communication mediums such as pictures or voice memos. These mediums serve as pattern breaks and inject new life into the conversation. By using voice memos, for example, you can add a playful and novel touch to the discussion. It's also important to recognize the value of face-to-face communication and adapt your energy and communication style to different situations.
Revealing your story and being authentic
To foster attraction and deeper connections, it is essential to reveal more about yourself and be versatile in your energy. Instead of constantly playing it safe or being passive, show different sides of your personality. Share personal stories and thoughts, allowing the other person to get to know the real you. Don't be afraid to be assertive and express your desires. Additionally, avoid focusing solely on the other person and encourage them to share their own stories and experiences.
When you're texting with someone you like, do you struggle to know what to say next? Or maybe it feels like you're in a texting rut, and keep having the same conversations… Today's episode is a mini toolkit for these exact situations, with 17 high-value texting suggestions that restart attraction, lead to a date, or just bring you more emotional connection. Use these practical messages to inspire better communication in any dating situation! >>> FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
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