The Agile Daily Standup - AgileDad Six Magic Words That Help You be a Better Listener
May 30, 2025
Discover the art of effective listening with just six powerful words! Explore how the phrases 'help me understand' and 'tell me more' can transform your communication skills. Personal stories highlight the importance of fostering dialogue and understanding diverse perspectives. Uncover simple yet impactful ways to enhance your relationships and connect on a deeper level.
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Listening Builds Relationships
- Effective listening requires actively seeking to understand rather than just respond.
- Building understanding helps strengthen relationships across all types of interactions.
Use "Help Me Understand"
- Use "help me understand" when confused or disagreeing to invite explanation instead of outright rejecting ideas.
- It shows openness to other viewpoints and fosters updating your perspective constructively.
Family Anecdote on Listening
- Lee Henson shares how using "help me understand" with his oldest daughter helped them find common ground despite disagreements.
- This approach made it easier to appreciate her point of view and strengthen their relationship.