
ill-advised by Bill Nighy Groovemelikeout
Dec 11, 2025
Bill dives into the heat of summer weddings, offering tips on staying cool and composed. He candidly addresses social exhaustion, sharing his strategies for navigating events without draining your energy. Boredom gets a positive spin as he champions idleness and the joy of wasting time. Tune in for snappy word bans and a curated playlist featuring legends like Marvin Gaye and Stevie Wonder. Plus, don't miss his book recommendation from Joan Didion that reflects on California heritage. A delightful mix of advice, music, and literary insights awaits!
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Stay Cool At Sunny Weddings
- Buy a decent wide-brimmed hat and navigate in the shade to avoid overheating at sunny weddings.
- Avoid linen suits and choose fabrics that keep you cooler and more comfortable in high temperatures.
A Sun Holiday Gone Wrong
- Bill describes once falling asleep on a beach and developing severe sun sores that ruined the holiday.
- He uses this story to explain his lifelong aversion to sun and why the listener's worry is understandable.
Limit Social Hangovers
- Arrive early at social events and leave early to limit social exhaustion and exposure.
- Let others do the talking and ask questions instead of oversharing to conserve energy.


