Modern Wisdom
#588 - Dr David Ley - Why Would Any Man Choose To Be Cucked?
Feb 11, 2023
Dr. David Ley, a clinical psychologist and sexual health expert, delves into the provocative world of cuckolding. He reveals surprising statistics about this growing trend and the psychological factors behind men's excitement for their partners' infidelity. Ley discusses the intersection of masculinity, bisexuality, and non-monogamy, challenging conventional views on sex and relationships. He also debunks myths about pornography's effects on sexual health and advocates for modernizing our understanding of masculinity and sexuality.
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- Cuckolding and hot-wifing are more common in relationships than expected, challenging societal biases and moral judgments surrounding female sexuality and monogamy.
- Some men are interested in cuckolding as a way to escape societal pressures of masculinity and fulfill their desire for submission and openness to experience.
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The prevalence of cuckholding and hot-wiping in sexual relationships
Dr. David Lay discusses the commonality of cuckholding and hot-wiping in sexual relationships. He shares his initial surprise when he encountered couples who engaged in these practices but had successful and healthy relationships. He highlights the need to challenge societal biases and moral judgments surrounding female sexuality and monogamy. His research focuses on understanding the motivations and dynamics of individuals who participate in cuckholding and hot-wiping, and he explores factors such as openness to experience, kinks, and the escape from societal pressures of masculinity. Additionally, he shares data on political and cultural influences on the prevalence of these fantasies.
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