Bare Marriage Episode 310: Desiring God Thinks Marriage Is Like Peddling Furiously on the Back of a Tandem Bike
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Jan 8, 2026 Dive into a critical examination of Christian marriage advice and its potential dangers. The hosts dissect problematic narratives, including a controversial metaphor that oversimplifies marriage dynamics and undercuts women's agency. They tackle the stigma around therapy in faith communities, emphasizing the importance of safety and discernment. Real-life stories illuminate the risks of relying solely on pastoral guidance. Plus, they offer practical tips for fostering healthy partnerships grounded in mutual respect and understanding.
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Why People Choose Therapy Over Church
- The Gospel Coalition article simplifies complex reasons people choose therapy over church counseling.
- Rebecca and Sheila argue churches often lack training, safety, and trust, driving people to licensed therapists.
Prioritize Safety And Professional Help
- If your pastor discourages therapy, ask why and consider safety first.
- Seek churches that openly collaborate with licensed therapists for congregant care.
25 Years Of Harm From Bad Pastoral Counsel
- A woman regretted relying on underqualified pastoral counselors for 25 years.
- She said licensed therapists would have spared her and her children much harm.
