Neurodivergent Love: The Power of Autistic-Autistic Relationships-Daniel Jones-The Aspie World

Sep 16, 2025

In this discussion, Daniel Jones, a best-selling author and influential creator behind The Aspie World, shares insights on the power of autistic-autistic relationships. He emphasizes how these connections foster authentic bonds through shared understanding and effective communication. Daniel explores conflict resolution strategies, the joys of mutual growth, and the importance of embracing authenticity in love. With personal anecdotes and research, he redefines what a healthy partnership looks like for the neurodivergent community.

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From Mixed To Autistic-Autistic Relationship

Daniel describes leaving a long-term relationship with a neurotypical partner due to frequent misunderstandings around his autistic needs.
He then shares meeting and dating an autistic woman and how that shifted his experience of intimacy and understanding.

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Comfortable Eye Contact With Shared Sensory Needs

Daniel recounts being able to make comfortable eye contact with his autistic partner despite prior discomfort with eye contact.
He attributes this to shared experience of sensory needs and mutual understanding.

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Practical Codes For ADHD Communication

Daniel explains using a private emoji as a quick communication code when one partner disappears during ADHD episodes.
They also share iPhone locations so each knows the other is safe during gaps in contact.

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During this session from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference, Daniel M. Jones talks about how autistic people dating other autistic people can lead to deeply fulfilling and empowering relationships rooted in shared understanding, unique communication, and mutual respect. He explores the benefits of autistic-autistic partnerships, highlighting the ways they foster authentic connections, provide spaces for mutual growth, and break down societal norms that often stigmatize neurodivergent relationships. By sharing research, personal anecdotes, and practical insights, this episode will shine a light on how these relationships can redefine what healthy and loving connections look like for autistic people.

Daniel M. Jones is internationally recognized as the force behind The Aspie World, is a best-selling author and award-winning video influencer. His book, Autism for Adults, has resonated worldwide, offering invaluable insights and support to the autism community. With The Aspie World—the largest YouTube channel led by an autistic creator—Daniel has revolutionized the way we understand autism. His platform not only raises awareness, but fosters meaningful understanding and compassion by sharing autism through an authentic, first-hand perspective. Diagnosed with Autism, OCD, ADHD, and Dyslexia, Daniel channels his personal experiences into powerful advocacy. Leveraging his expertise in video and social media, he educates millions about autism and neurodiversity, breaking barriers and empowering others to embrace differences.

A trailblazer in his field, Daniel made history by launching the first-ever neurodiverse panel at VidCon US, the world’s largest video convention. Focused on ADHD and Autism, this groundbreaking initiative amplified voices within the neurodivergent community, fostering a global conversation about inclusion and diversity.