Life Kit

When is it OK to lie?

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Aug 22, 2023
Frank Festa, a reporter for Life Kit, dives deep into the fascinating world of deception. He discusses when white lies might be harmless versus harmful, with expert insights illuminating the gray areas of honesty. Parenting dynamics reveal contradictions between advice and actions, while studies show even toddlers can master the art of lying early on. The challenges women of color face in professional settings illustrate the struggle to balance authenticity and safety. Ultimately, the conversation tackles the complex connections between honesty and relationships, offering tips for fostering openness.
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INSIGHT

Lying is Normal

  • Lying is a normal human behavior, developing soon after we learn to walk.
  • Young children's lies are often transparent, improving in sophistication with age.
ANECDOTE

High School Lies

  • Jacqueline Johnson recalls lying in high school to maintain a cool image.
  • She wanted to fit in, despite her parents being strict.
INSIGHT

Impression Management

  • Impression management, or lying to fit in, reflects a primal urge to belong.
  • This stems from our ancestors, for whom ostracization was dangerous.
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