

Cialdini’s 7 Principles of Influence: A Deep Dive with Dr Chris Phelps
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The Psychology of Persuasion with Dr Chris Phelps — Cialdini Institute Faculty, Speaker, Influence Expert
What if the difference between a “maybe” and a “yes” had nothing to do with your pitch — and everything to do with science?
This week on We Have A Meeting, we sit down with Dr Chris Phelps, one of the leading global experts on the psychology of persuasion and faculty member of the Cialdini Institute — to decode the real science behind why people say yes, and how to ethically influence with integrity.
Chris doesn’t just talk about Influence — he’s worked alongside Dr. Robert Cialdini himself. If you've ever read Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion, this is your chance to go one level deeper.
We explore:
🧠 The 7 Principles of Influence — and why they work on the brain, not just in the boardroom
🎯 Why salespeople misuse reciprocity, and how to apply it without sounding transactional
🛑 How scarcity, social proof, and authority really affect buyer decisions in 2025
🗣️ Practical ways to build trust, reduce resistance, and create genuine persuasion
📚 What most people misunderstand about Cialdini’s work — and how to fix it
This episode is essential listening for founders, sales leaders, marketers, and anyone trying to persuade without pressure.
🎧 If you’ve ever Googled “how to be more persuasive,” “what are Cialdini’s 7 principles,” or “how to sell without being pushy” — this one’s for you.
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Chapters
- 00:00:00 Introduction & Setting the Stage
- 00:01:06 Meet Dr. Chris Phelps & The Cialdini Institute
- 00:02:46 Influence vs. Manipulation: Key Differences
- 00:05:19 Principle 1: Reciprocity
- 00:10:49 Principle 2: Commitment & Consistency
- 00:15:35 Principle 3: Social Proof
- 00:20:58 Principle 4: Authority & Building Trust
- 00:26:49 Principle 5: Liking
- 00:32:00 Principle 6: Scarcity
- 00:39:10 Principle 7: Unity
- 00:41:49 Universal Application & Cultural Nuance
- 00:42:52 Practical Takeaways & How to Apply These Principles
- 00:44:53 Closing & Where to Find Dr. Chris Phelps