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Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage & Parenting

2297: Dear Marriage, Humanity Wants a Divorce from You by Dr. Kelly Flanagan on Marital Advice & Communication

Sep 1, 2024
12:23
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Dr. Kelly Flanagan, a respected clinical psychologist and author, dives into the changing perceptions of marriage, particularly in Japan, where younger generations opt for singlehood. He discusses the unrealistic expectations that lead to marital disappointment and the importance of mutual surrender for true fulfillment. Flanagan emphasizes that instead of asking what we want from marriage, we should consider what marriage desires from us, shifting the focus from personal gain to collective growth and understanding in relationships.
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Quick takeaways

  • Japan's declining marriage rates reflect a global trend of individuals reassessing the institution and its relevance to their lives.
  • True marital fulfillment stems from mutual commitment and vulnerability, rather than self-serving expectations or personal gain.

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Decline of Marriage in Japan

Japan is experiencing a significant decline in marriage rates, with a sharp drop in the percentage of men and women planning to marry in just a few years. As societal attitudes shift, fewer individuals are seeking traditional marriage, contributing to a projected population decrease that could see the country’s population fall dramatically by 2115. The correlation between these demographic changes and the growing disinterest in marriage indicates a deeper issue where the institution no longer meets the needs and expectations of younger generations. This evolving landscape suggests that Japan may represent a broader global trend of individuals reassessing their relationship with the concept of marriage itself.

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