Savage Lovecast

After Action Report #1

Oct 24, 2025
In this engaging conversation, Lil Guy, a gay man and BDSM newbie with over three decades of marriage, shares his eye-opening experience of donning a full Lycra Spider-Man suit. He discusses the unexpected surge of masculinity he felt while submissive and how the suit transformed his behavior. Lil Guy recounts public play at a bathhouse, highlighting themes of anonymity and confidence. With practical advice for those looking to explore costumed encounters, he emphasizes safety and consent in shared vibrant experiences.
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ANECDOTE

Spider-Man Suit Sparks New Play

  • Lil Guy describes putting on a Lycra Spider-Man suit during a sub-dom play session and feeling a strong change in identity.
  • He tried the suit because other doms had worn it and he wanted to experience that dynamic himself.
INSIGHT

Costume Alters Masculine Presence

  • Wearing the suit generated an unexpected sense of masculinity, power, and virility even while remaining submissive.
  • The costume shifted his voice, affect, and capacity to top briefly, revealing how costume can alter identity in play.
ANECDOTE

Steamworks Sling: Anonymous Play

  • Lil Guy took the Spider-Man suit to Steamworks and posted on apps that he'd be there in the suit, then got multiple anonymous partners.
  • He could only see shadows through the headpiece and lost track of how many people had sex with him.
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